Many people have decided as a life’s theme that they don’t deserve what they really want in life. Maybe that was the message that your parents gave you or maybe you just picked up that belief from your environment, but I have to ask you these very life-changing questions right now: How is this belief serving you or your family? What will this belief cost you in time and lost opportunities for fun and enjoyment? Is this belief really worth hanging on to?
The answer for me was No. I made a conscious decision that life was too short to feel unworthy of enjoying the blessings and fruits of the world. Hopefully this chapter will create the desire for you to truly love and nurture yourself to allow true prosperity to enhance your life. Do things daily that improve your self-esteem. One of the most important ways to improve your life is to expose yourself to information every day that will remind you of how worthy you are of having whatever you are willing to create for yourself. The power of your mind is the instrument of your success or failure, and happiness or unhappiness in life.
Don’t associate with others who dwell on the negative, stay away from negative newspaper, magazine, television, and radio information that drags you down and makes you focus on what is not working in life.
Get out of old ruts of thinking, acting, and behaving. For the next 21 days create a new routine for yourself, do things differently. A rut is a living death. By simply changing your habits, you give yourself the opportunity to enjoy new things. You allow yourself to see new opportunities and you recreate the spark in your life that makes life fun again. It’s really sad that most people go through life unconsciously. They get up at the same time every the morning, eat the same breakfast, drive the same route to work, eat lunch with the same people, talk about the same worn, tired subjects and then go home and do the same thing night after night.
These are the same people who say life is no longer fun. They complain there is nothing to do, and that life is boring. Their relationships are dying on the vine from lack of stimulation.
Today is the first day of the rest of your life so do something different! Try changing your routine — experiment by wearing different outfits, trying new foods, going out to eat in a new place, shopping in a different part of town. Invite a neighbor over whom you’ve not really gotten to know before. Go to a museum or to the library and read books on subjects that you’ve never read before, even try a new hair cut. Just do something different every day for next 21 days and see and feel how much more alive you will become!!
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